Men's Home Page

Every relationship starts with a date






Subscribe to this feed

Recent Articles



3 Reasons to Avoid Elliptical Machines

The latest Men's Health magazine comes down on elliptical machines hard.

Now I know elliptical machines are often the only option for people with bad knees, but if your knees are healthy, think twice before using the elliptical machine for these three reasons.

First, on page 52 of the December, 2008 issue, Men's Health warns, "Never trust elliptical machines".

More...



Why Men Need Adventure In Relationships And How To Handle It

There are certain men who crave adventure in their relationships and also in their lives. This is the craving to be challenged, grow and become all they are capable of. For some the call comes in connection to work, sports or feats of daring; others hear it in relationship to women, who they see as their primary challenge. This need for adventure in relationship can manifest in various ways.

Some men are drawn to disturbed and disturbing women. They find this exciting and stimulating, despite the difficulties that come along. Also, they can then use this as an excuse for not staying too long. This kind of relationship protects them from intimacy. It also protects them from having to focus upon themselves.

Others crave relationships where the sexual chemistry is intense. "From the day I moved in it we were making love morning, noon and night," John said. "I felt powerful and on the edge. But, when that started to wane, there was nothing else left. She was just an ordinary person and I was just an ordinary guy as well. I kept trying to change the situation, to get her to lose some weight and become exciting like she used to be. That backfired. Before long I was gone."

More...



Your Online Personal Ad - Write For Success!

Where are all the good men/women? You go to parties, sign up for various activities and ask friends and family if they know anyone they can introduce you to. Yet, your dating life has been more than a little disappointing. What is a guy/girl supposed to do to find quality people?

Begin by continuing to do what you have been doing. These are all good ways to meet people. However, you may need to expand your search to the world of online dating. This would allow you to expand your search and come into contact with interested and available singles you would never meet in the existing circles in which you now move.

Perhaps you are thinking, "I have already tried this with little or mixed success." Maybe this too has become a source of disappointment and frustration and even despair. If so, you could be going about it the wrong way, or be in need of some information to put you on a track to better success. The first important step is writing your personal ad and choosing a good site to place it on.

More...




Deserve What You Want

Deserve What You Want

Deserve What You Want is unlike any dating book you have ever read because it isn't about how to "handle rejection", "get over" bad relationships or how to "forget about" people you weren't compatible with anyway.

Well, I was tired of reading the same old things over and over again about "how to pick up women", "adding spark to a dull relationship", "getting over the last breakup", "tricking someone into sticking around", etc. In my mind, and maybe in yours also if you share my way of thinking, it is time for something altogether different-and decidedly more useful.

It is time for a reference manual on knowing what it takes to recreate ourselves into being the kind of partner the person of our dreams is going to be attracted to-and then going after our vision of who that partner for us is.

In other words, it's high time for a book on how best to prepare ourselves for great relationships instead of picking up the pieces from bad ones! This book is LONG OVERDUE.

And if you are like me, you already sense that you've just got to BE the BEST partner POSSIBLE in order to GET the BEST partner POSSIBLE. Otherwise, the only real-world alternative (at best) is to "settle" for a partner who disappoints you--and vice-versa. Millions of people live this kind of unhappy existence, drowning in pornography or soap operas in a weak attempt to vicariously live a dream which they have squandered. Knowing that real fulfillment is possible in a relationship, my passion is to help you make sure you are not one of the untold masses who "settle".

And in order to get a book on how to make that REALITY, the truth is that I had to write it myself.

And that's exactly the kind of book "Deserve What You Want" is. As such, it is one of the most revolutionary and groundbreaking books on dating and relationships ever written. I've searched Amazon.com and perused the shelves at Barnes And Noble, and nothing out there even comes close to the concept...the focus of this book is 100% original



Double Your Dating

Single women hate it when a man doesn't understand attraction..

The problem with attraction, and with success with women in general is that the things you need to do to be successful are not obvious.

It's a skill, and I honestly believe that any man can learn it.

But you're not likely to figure it out by "trial and error". Many of the keys to making women feel attraction aren't "obvious" at all.

In fact, many of them make no sense... and they're the LAST thing you'd do in a particular situation if you didn't know the SECRETS.

The very best way to learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you is to get yourself a copy of Double Your Dating.





Raise Your Kids Right the First Time Around

It's every parent's desire to see their children grow up to be well adjusted and happy individuals.

Our children's future happiness depends on how well they are able to learn life skills as they grow up. We have to take on the role of teacher and we need to be very good at it.

Raise Your Kids Right the First Time Around is an excellent resource to help you ensure your children have a happy and fruitful life.

You owe it to your children to read this book.

Gary Caine
The Singles Cafe