52 WOMEN IN 30 DAYS

I just got off the phone with a friend of mine who attracted and bedded 52 sexy and beautiful women in a month's time.

Skeptical?

You ought to be.

This one's would make it to the Guinness Book of Records, I bet.

Now you may ask, what's with him?

What's his secret?

One question at a time, please.

To begin with, the guy is neither handsome nor a celebrity. He's not even popular. Neither does he own riches or stash of money. He's average looking at best.

He's actually not doing so well in the height department but he still manages to attract women left and right

So how did he carry out such feat?

"I don't think it's a feat", clarifies John (let's call him John to protect him and secure his safety from the angry husbands and boyfriends of his "women"). "I approach them like any other customer and pitch in my sales talk about gym equipment."

Aha.

There lies the first secret of attracting women that John accidentally uncovered.

1.) APPROACH WOMEN

Be natural and unencumbered when you approach and talk to women. Please note the word "unencumbered". It means no fear whatsoever or any preconceived notions of failure.

Most men have already "believed" in their mind the women with spurn their gesture when they try to approach these beautiful chicks.

It's false, of course.

Women enjoy talking with men as much as we men enjoy talking with them.

"Great!" you say.

"But exactly how should I do that?" As John has explained, just go and talk to them.

It's as simple as that.

By doing so, you display a great deal of confidence that instantly impress and attract women.

2.) BUILD RAPPORT WITH THEM

"I always put on my happiest smile when I approach women," says John. "I treat them as my longtime acquaintance and conveyed in my tone of voice how happy I am to see them."

This is called building rapport.

Let's do some experiment.

Let's put you in a woman's shoes for a second.

Can you imagine how you would react if some complete stranger at the mall approaches you with dull greeting and somber expression?

Will that excite you?

Will that interest you at all?

You'd probably get scared for no reason and flee.

So, with that in mind, smile and try to look pleased when you approach women. Your disarming smile will put them at ease and they will respond with positive gesture.

Remember, building rapport with women involves facial expressions, smooth and fluid body movements--- meaning, and no abrupt or quirky gestures. Your eyes and tone of voice should, as John put it, convey how happy you are to see them.

3.) CHARM THEM WITH SINCERE COMPLIMENTS

According to the dictionary, charm means "to delight or please someone with compelling magical influence." And no one knows this craft well than our humble salesman John.

"As soon I approach a woman, I immediately take note of anything in her that stands out from the rest," reveals John. "Then I compliment her on that."

"If a woman carries a cute poodle at the mall, I seize the opportunity and launch conversation about her pet. I would ask about the breed, how she takes care of the poodle, etc...The results are always astounding. A woman would warm up to me and she'd talk to me as if she had known me for years."

Good point, John.

But what if she does not carry a pet? you ask.

That's easy. You look for other things of interests like her hairstyle, her bag, her eyes, her nose, her sunglasses, her laptop, her purse... the list is almost endless. The trick is to compliment her sincerely- and we mean sincerely for women can smell flattery a mile away-- on these matters.

My friend Mike, another cool guy who has three girlfriends at the moment agrees with this.

Here's a sound bite from one of our recent conversations:

"I met my second chick at the men's wear department", he recounts. " She works as a saleslady there and I couldn't help but notice the mole on her chin. I complimented her about it and we talked for several minutes. Before I left, she agreed to let me fetch her at closing time."

"It's a done deal," Mike finishes with a wink.

This is how my good friend Mike met one of his girlfriends.

In his best-selling book "How To Win Friends And Influence People", author Dale Carnegie allotted several chapters on the astounding power of sincere compliments.

So start using them, immediately.

Trust me, it works like a charm.

Now, going back to John. I mentioned he bedded 52 women in 30 days, didn't I?

Ok, it's inaccurate.

It's not really 30 but only 26 days. John insisted he stays at home on Sundays to take a day off and relax.

But hey, it works pretty damn well for him.

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