As a man, the dating world is full of mixed messages. You are a successful man right? You have a personally and financially rewarding career and that is something women want, right? Then how come you are not dating? Or if you are dating, why does your woman complain about how much time you spend at work? Read on my friend, help is on the way.

Decoding the message

It is true that women are attracted to a successful man. The flip side is that women also need attention. Let's do the math; there are 24 hours in a day and you spend 12 of those preparing for work, working and returning home from work. That leaves you twelve whole hours. Calculate in the need for sleep and eating and it does not leave much free time. We will forget for a moment that you are in the modern world where you can be reached via email, instant messaging and phone at all times of the day and night. If you have a girl who just wants to be friends with benefits then maybe you have it made.

Game plan for creating balance

Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating recommends "If you really and truly do not have time to date, consider internet dating as an option. While you are busy being busy, internet dating sites can match you with women who may be looking for a time-challenged guy like you." Still, you will need to do some strategizing first.

• How much time do you want to spend looking for a date?
  
  
• Can you "condense" some of your work so you will have more time to date?
  
  
• Make dating time a priority just like any other work project you have accomplished.
  
  
• Do not go down a dead end. An example would be putting your energy into dating a married woman.

Making the most of the time you do have while dating

• If your schedule does not allow for regular dinners, why not try lunches with your girl?
  
  
• Turn about is fair play; take turns being responsible for finding time to be together.
  
  
• Life is in the details so make sure you manage your own chores or errands. Think about how you would like it if you and your girl finally had time together and it was spent folding her laundry.
  
  
• Take advantage of technology to stay in touch. In this case, a flirty text is appropriate and may keep things spicy!

"It boils down to doing what we do best, solving problems. Attack this like you would any other project and nail down your goals. If you are not dating and want to, brainstorm ways to make the time. If you are dating and your girl is feeling left out, get creative" suggests Ashok, an expert on "Indian dating do's and don'ts.

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