Have you ever dated a person that you could not get enough of? Lots of people do.

The trouble is that, most of the time, one person is doing the chasing and the other is enjoying being chased. If you are doing the chasing it can get pretty frustrating, not to mention lowering your self confidence.

If you are the one being chased then it is either gratifying or scary. In today's modern world it is hard to remember that men used to be the ones who had to chase girls.

Plenty of men will tell you stories of "crazy" women who stalked them long after a relationship were over. Some people have only met casually when they find themselves being chased by someone they barely know.

Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating advises "There is another way to go about the age old game of "catch me if you can". First of all if you have met a woman who seems incredible and you want to get to know her better it is ok to give her a hint."

If that person does not share your interest or desire to get together again you are better off not chasing this person. In this situation you are bound to end up looking ridiculous at best and psychopathic at worst.

No, the thrill of the hunt is something else altogether. Chasing someone can be playful and thrilling to both parties but only if both parties want to get to know each other more.

Rules of the Chase

• Do not chase after women who want nothing to do with you.
  
  
• Keep your mood light and fun, never be cruel or ugly.
  
  
• Don't forget to flirt! You might find out where she likes to hang out on Friday night and drop by on "accident". Send them a drink from across the room. When they look over you can smile and blow them a kiss before heading out the door.
  
  
• Do not take her phone call every time. Screening your calls and let her wait to be called back so she can wonder what you are up to.
  
  
• When you do call her back, make sure you cut the conversation short from time to time. This is best done when you have just peaked her interest and she seems to want more time with you.

"Always allow yourself to be caught at some point. No one wants to feel like a fool and if you play hard to get for too long that is exactly what she is going to feel like. You do not want to frustrate her, leave her wanting more from you." suggests Ashok, an expert on Indian dating do's and don'ts. For more advice on Indian Dating Tips visit www.indiandatingtoday.com

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