Men tend to approach sex in the wrong way. They think that the harder they ram, the harder she'll cum. Unfortunately for women, this doesn't work. Did you know the best way to make a woman cum is to not even get inside her? That's right, good old third base is a home run for the ladies. The vagina has very few nerve endings past the opening, and hitting the g-spot through penetration is more about lucking out than mastering technique.

The male species often thinks that third base is a means to prepare her for his throbbing member, which is why the women they're with tend not to respond with the screaming orgasm of which they are capable. If you reprogram yourself to thinking about digital stimulation as part of "having sex," then you'll be able to satisfy her on new levels. She will certainly thank you for it!

Before you make the journey into the bush, you have to start elsewhere. Women don't have the ability to dive right into sex the way men do. She needs a bit of a build up. This starts from the moment you hope to have sex with her later. Every small touch, glance, and kiss throughout the night draws her closer to you. It will be very difficult to get her started if you've been acting like she's a stranger for the past several hours. She doesn't have to feel completely in love with you, but she does need to feel some sort of connection.

When you're finally alone, never underestimate the power of a good make out session. Don't try to force it, but if you can start with gentle kisses that escalate into tongue tangling passion, her nether regions will be begging for some attention once you get there.

In the midst of your good old fashioned make-out, put your hands other places, and I don't mean breasts alone. You should stroke her back, her sides, her hair, and her breasts. Play with her nipples for a while, and then move else where. Go back, move away, and repeat. Once you feel her breath quicken and her grip tighten, don't leave her hanging, get down there and touch away.

It is best to not go into full on assault mode. Start by massaging the outer parts of her vulva, and her inner thighs. If you just graze the clitoris now and again, it will send shock waves through her body. When it's time, zero in on the sweet spot, and don't move until she has had at least one mind-blowing climax.

Michael Webb
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