A man has two additional phases to his orgasm that women do not: the Point of No Return (PNR) and the Refractory Period. The PNR, as you can guess, is when you have reached the point where you don't even need to be touched in order to ejaculate. Your body goes into the Refractory Period after you have climaxed, and you're "coming down," in a sense. You feel calm, warm, and tired. There will be absolutely no service in that area until your penis has had a rest. Let's explore these phases more closely, and see how they make your sex different from hers.

The PNR is both a blessing and a curse. It happens when the semen has entered the shaft, and there is no stopping the load from blowing. Your grandmother could walk into the room, and you'd still be able to cum. Women do not experience this. Her body will not continue to through the orgasm unless stimulated. The minute you stop touching her, she will stop cumming. She could be in the middle of a body searing orgasm, and if you pull away, that will be the end of it. Some men think this is a cute way to tease their woman, but some men are total idiots. If she is screaming, "I'm cumming! I'm cumming!" then you had better continue to do exactly what you are doing until she's done, or she just might not let you have a second chance.

She may not be able to get through a climax with no stimulation, but her orgasms tend to be quite a bit more intense than yours. Typically, you bust out that squishy "O" Face for about two seconds, and then it's nap time. Her orgasms can last exponentially longer than that given the proper stimulation. You will hear her scream, see her body writhe, and she will be in a totally different world. Guess what, she can do it again.

The best part about sex for a woman is she doesn't have the Refractory Period. When she climaxes, her body doesn't go into hibernation mode the way yours does. Therefore, if you quit on her after just one sweet burst, you're not living up to your full potential as a lover. Now don't just get her off and then mindlessly keep rubbing the same spot hoping it'll happen again. Pull back a bit. If you wait a minute, and then go back to touching her, she'll cum again. Plus, each proceeding orgasm tends to build in intensity. If you get her to the point where she's going, "Stop, I can't cum anymore, it's too intense, " she may just fall in love with you.

Michael Webb
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