You might be decent at approaching or meeting women, you can hold up a conversation, dance and have fun in general, but you find that you still don't have the self-confidence to get physical with a girl. It can be scary because of the fear of rejection. But I'm going to show you how to make the first move on a girl.

The thing in our society is that women are required to be passive in the dating game. One of a girl's biggest fears is being seen as someone with no sexual standards, being seen as "too easy". Most women will do almost anything just to avoid this label.

They will not make the first move on you. It's been said a woman's best pick up line is simply giving suggestive eye contact and letting the man do the rest. They are HOPING you have the balls to walk up to her and start a conversation.

It's the same thing when you are dancing with this sexy girl, she's into you, laughing at your jokes, and so on. You have to keep moving forward! There is a limited time frame when you still have a chance at getting sexual. If you don't do anything, she will see that you're not a real MAN and be disappointed in you.

Women WANT to get physical with you. It's just that society demands that they don't make the first move. So they are left waiting, hoping that you will be the real man she's been waiting for that will have the guts.

So, are you still wondering how to make the first move on a girl? Well, get some experience behind yourself and get used to being in these make-or-break situations. That way you can consciously tell yourself not to care what she thinks.

And the key to making the first move on a girl is getting in the MINDSET first. Sure, you can go in for the kiss if you see she is ready, as long as you do it without hesitation. That will work more times than you might think. Try it.

But if you want to be subtle - start SEEING the two of you getting physical first. When you're talking to her, really get a clear image of the subtones changing. Then use your body to express this subtone. Touch her lightly on her upper arms, shoulders, touch the small of her back, put your hand on her hip(s), hold her hands and caress them, stand closer to her.

I have a technique for how to make the first move on a girl. Try this (this is a killer): Use your face to send out STRONG SIGNALS which communicate that you want to kiss her NOW. You will give out subtle signals with your facial muscles that will let her know what you mean.

And then go in for the kiss.

If you want to get good at this, then check out my website at http://www.MakeAGirlLikeYou.com. Many men all over the world have started to meet, sleep with, date more beautiful women than they could have dreamed of. Do you want to be the next man to join them and really start ENJOYING YOUR LIFE?

Joshua Egidio
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