There are so many things that puzzle a man, and one of those things is keeping his woman happy. I believe that every man will agree with me that if they know how to keep their woman happy, they would do it. So, here you are gentlemen, how to make a woman happy.

Listen to her. I suggested this first because this is probably one of the most important things that you should do if you want to make her happy. In general, women love to talk about a lot of things, even things that you don't understand. Keep in mind that a woman talks this in order to feel better.

When something is bothering her, talking helps alleviate her worries. This is a form of de- stressing mechanism for her. One point to remember is that when she pours out her problems, you are not obliged to find a solution then and there. This is where the problem usually occurs, as a man you feel that you have to do something, this is where frustrations come in.

The good news is that, listening to her and comforting her that she has an ally, helps a lot. Another suggestion to keep your woman happy is to be a gentleman. Guys, I know that some women are hard to please, but if there is one thing that makes a lady's heart melt is with the little, everyday things that you do for her.

Like opening the door and pulling the chair for her, or carrying her stuff or thanking her for the home-cooked dinner. Make this a habit. She may or she may not notice your chivalry but believe me, subconsciously she knows, in this time and age she can rarely find a man as gentle as you.

Another thing on how to make a woman happy is to be considerate of her feelings. If you are considerate of her, you would call her if you are coming home late or you would help her with the chores. Intimately speaking, being considerate is essential, too. Yes, in sex, it's important that you wait for her, in other words make her climax.

On the other hand, if she's tired from all the chores and office work, be considerate enough to make her rest. If you are considerate of her feelings, you tend to appreciate her more. And women are suckers for this kind of stuff. Not just women but people in general, each and every one of us needs to feel that we are appreciated not just for our efforts but as a person.

Women are just more sensitive in this kind of aspect. I know that for some of you guys, these things that I have mentioned are too much for you, but take my word for it, if you do it, it will be worth it.

Ruth Purple
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