What You Absolutely Must Know

In order to MASTER a problem, if often helps to understand the NATURE of the problem.

Without going into all the details, what you must absolutely know is that the whole game that women in general play is DESIGNED to OBLITERATE the vast majority of guys from ever succeeding.

If women did NOT make it difficult to "win", then the NUMBER ONE GOAL OF WOMEN would be jeapordized: And that goal is POWER.

I'm not saying women do this CONSCIOUSLY. Whether you want to attribute this to culture or biology, the fact is that women use their sexuality as a form of power far more than men do. They do this even to their own inconvenience and sacrifice of their own pleasure sometimes, because it's considered WORTH it for preserving the strength of the number one achievement of this behavior. Again, that achievement is POWER.

If women gave it up easily, it's goodbye sexual power.

It's the oldest trick in the book, also known as "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free".

Men don't think this way about sex and sexuality because they have been brainwashed to think with their you-know-whats.

So men become the BUYERS and women are the OWNERS.

And men FORTIFY this culture and this atmosphere by creating a world where we worship women, especially women who are hot.

Notice how MANY types of behaviour that makes men SEXY is often called GAY.

Dressing well, having fashion sense, understanding women, wearing colourful stuff, etc.

See that?
The reality is that it's NOT "gay". Not unless you are walking around wearing clothing that actually IS "gay" and not unless you stop being MASCULINE in your behaviour and dominance.

But because guys THINK all fun stuff is "gay", they screw themselves by being overly "stoic" and boring, acting boring, dressing in a lame fashion, and being typical GUYS by worshipping women who are hot and totally giving over all their dignity and power to women.

So women have the monopoly on the power of ATTRACTION. Women understand men, they know how to dress, they know how to behave socially and in all social environments, they know how to heighten every aspect of everything to increase their appeal. They know how to BEHAVE to create an aura of ELECTRICITY around them.

And as soon as guys try to be SEXY or try to PICK UP women, what do women do?

It SEEMS that they SLAM you hard for trying. They make it seem they are NOT so interested.

Well OF COURSE they are going to do that!

They have to PRETEND that they are not INTERESTED in sex. By doing that, they PRESERVE the image of you being the desperate BUYER and themselves and of themselves as being the RICH SUPPLIER who DOESN'T NEED YOUR BUSINESS because there are plenty of other desperate buyers out there who they also don't need but may give them the "privilege" of buying from their supplies.

And to make things worse, what do guys when they think the woman is not interested in "selling" her supplies? The guy then UPS his offer!!! He tries HARDER!!!

This sets up TWO problems:

First, he rewards the chick, he confirms her theory that being this way will get her EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS- POWER. After all, she is getting more and more by being the way she is, he is proving it.

Second, he also shows that HE is really NOT desirable at all, in fact he is even WORSE than other guys, otherwise why the heck is he trying SOOO hard??? So now she REALLY loses any attraction she might have REALLY had for him our COULD have developed for him!

So you have to "get it" that this is just the way it IS based on reasons of SURVIVAL throughout history for women. It was tolerable for men when men had far greater political and economic power, because this gave men a whole different AURA that went beyond politics or economics and actually filtered into the world of ATTRACTION. Again, all because of SURVIVAL, which dictates the chemistry and nature of all emotions.

But in a world where women already HAVE equality in all those other areas, men are getting EMOTIONALLY MASSACRED.

And I want to make it DEAFENINGLY CLEAR: This is no more women's fault than it is MEN'S FAULT for not giving women the VOTE for about FOREVER until recently. Men didn't think they were being evil by doing that, they simply never thought that it made LOGICAL SENSE. They figured women were at home with the kids, and men were out in the workplace and in the politics and in the wars, so that men should make the decisions about all this. Add a heaping teaspoon of religion and it's views on women, and you get world where women didn't have much power.

So women developed their own ways. So don't go hating on women, that's JUST as RIDICULOUS and ARCHAIC as those feminists who go around hating men.

So now women have both equality and also they have this advantage of a brainwashed society of men who BELIEVE that women really MEAN it when women act "hard to get".

The truth is that women in a way DO believe they are SINCERELY doing the right thing.

After all, a woman who is "easy" is a "slut", right? And that's a huge insult. It's a total LOSS of power. After all, no guy wants a "slut", right?

And so if a woman is a slut, it's goodbye sexual power. Even if she does have a bunch of crazy wild times! It's just not worth it.

Add to that, the fact that when you really DO have tons of sexual options as women do, you don't tend to want QUANTITY, you want QUALITY. She wants the BEST guy, not ALL the guys.

And the more guys act like desperate and undesirable guys, combined with the fact that women are trained to believe that women should be hard to get, and you get a really "PERFECT STORM" that overwhelms most guys INSTANTLY as soon as they even TRY to get an interaction going if they even try in the first place.

THIS IS WHY women go so crazy for celebrities, even if they are not good looking and EVEN IF THEY DON'T KNOW HIM AT ALLLLLL PERSONALLY.

It's because the guy is socially proofed, the guy is considered HIGH VALUE by society, so the chick thinks she can't be making a MISTAKE by sleeping with him, since after all everyone says he is OKAY. She can't be a "slut" since even GUYS respect this guy!!!! So no guy can feel she is "cheap", after all it's GUYS who made the celebrity famous in the first place as well!

See that?
So THAT'S why you hear stories of women who are super hot who jump into bed with celebrities and who don't seem to give these celebrities many "tests", they just jump into bed with them. Even then, girls who are more mature will often test the guy to see if he is just going to dump them, or if he is going to make it something "special", because getting dumped is not cool either. It's kind of an insult.

The BOTTOM LINE from all this? Whenever you are interacting with women, you have to realize that in addition to being TOTALLY COOL AND LAID BACK, you must NEVER act like a goofy dork, at least not until she is convinced you are SUPERIOR to her overall.

So Adam Sandler can go on TV and say things like "she's the only girl that tolerates me" etc, as if no other girl wants him, because he knows it's NOT TRUE and he also knows his chick knows it's NOT true.

But if you are STARTING an interaction from scratch, you must constantly be in the superior position. The irony is that ACHIEVING THIS is NOT doing the things you might think.

Because if you REALLY were superior, you would not try to PROVE anything to her when she tries to MOW YOU DOWN on your pick-up. You would not get PISSED, you would not get angry, you would not get sad.

You would be rather unaffected by all that, and instead you would continue in your laid-back, upbeat, confident, masculine state of mind that you had before she started all her anti-pickup stuff on you.

You would PROGRESS the interaction further and further, while most guys would say, "I'm getting the hell outta here because this FEELS LIKE CRAP" or "feels TERRIFYING!!!".

Remember, she feels it's her JOB to try damn hard to flunk you, she feels that if she doesn't do this then she is letting in all the rejects, and she feels cheap.

And in many ways, she is right.
So if you leave it to her, she will flunk you by DEFAULT and in a way you have to give her credit for that, for having standards.

On a related note, this is why it's important if you are going to have a wingman, he must be cool under pressure, otherwise he will do things that reveal he is losing state which shows inferiority, which will reflect negatively on you as well. And of course, ruins the whole vibe as well. A bad wingman actually RUINS the vibe because HIS mood has been shattered. He can't take the pressure of her "anti-pickup tactics" and it shows through his tatements and body language no matter how hard he tries to hide it.

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