Is she faking it? I'm going to reveal if you've pleased her or not with some signs during and after the act. The ambiance plays a most important part for her to get tuned into the mood. Satisfying a woman in bed; one must be observant like listening to her breathing. If she's panting even lightly, you're turning her on. Through this way you'd know you're on the right tract. Remember that if you start it right, you'd be able to have a good finish. Satisfying a woman is more telling then a moan because it's an unforced response. Notice her skin too.

Satisfying a woman in bed means her chest and neck region becomes flushed, her legs flex, and toes curl. She arches her back and moves her pelvis deeply and rhythmically. If she's not feeling it, she'll just lie there. She's not making any sense. Satisfying a woman in bed one might think that she's demonically possessed, her gibberish means she's really into you. If her speech is off, it means that she's totally caught up in the sensation. However, if her words come out straight and clean, she's likely checking if you've placed gum above your ceiling. She'd get up to do stuff.

She'll crave contact through cuddling, talking or wanting to go for another round in bed. When she's dissatisfied, she'll be detached, which could bring about her rolling over or getting out of bed. So if she bails out to call a friend, make a snack or turn on the TV, it's not a good sign of satisfying a woman, pal. Busying herself means that those things were on her mind during the act or she wasn't satisfied and is frustrated. Did I do an awesome performance? What is she thinking? Then you start asking her how it was. Women's usual reply would be "Great!" You'd wonder if that's really on her mind.

A few words mean she wants more and isn't telling you. But don't be discouraged that you're not satisfying a woman in bed. Rather, simply break the silence with sexy humor. Tell her that the last performance was only a preliminary to what's about to come which of course you can do better. Make do on your word by asking what would drive her insane. A woman who wasn't turned on the first time can become very sexual when she gets encouraged from her man to ask for more.

Ruth Purple
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