It's no big secret that women like to be touched. They love the feeling of comfort it provides. Which is why, if you want to please a woman, you should never underestimate the power of the sensual massage. The strokes of your hand will both relax and entice her. By the end, she will have a clear mind and be focused completely on you - as long as you create an inviting ambiance. This is a step-by-step guide to help you understand the basics of sensual massage.

1. Set the mood. If it is too cold or too bright, it will not be soothing to her. Dim the lights or light scented candles. For an extra soothing sensation, put on some soft music. I personally recommend some Al Green, but definitely choose music she likes. If you're not sure, nature sounds or ambient noise CDs are a good alternative. Make sure it's nice and warm in the room, or she won't want to get naked!


2. Lube up. Not in the way you're thinking. Apply a creamy lotion or oil to your palms before you start rubbing her down. It will allow your hands to glide across her skin more smoothly. Get something special that you only use for this purpose, and get it in a yummy flavor so you can lick it off of her later. The aroma of it will tingle her senses, heightening her experience as well.


3. Master your strokes. Don't press too hard, you are her sexual partner, not her athletic trainer. You don't need to beat out tight spots or loosen up joints; you want to relax the poor girl. Slow and steady strokes are key. Avoid loosing physical contact during the massage. It agitates the senses, which is counter productive to what you're trying to accomplish.


4. Don't play favorites. If you rub down one arm, you must rub down the other. Giving all of your attention to one part of the body makes her feel unbalanced and uneasy. Additionally, don't do her right side and then her left. If you massage her right arm, do her left arm before moving on to her right leg and then her left. This applies not only to sensual massage, but to any intimate situation. If you suck on her left nipple, make sure you give attention to her right one. Conversely, if you spend time on her lower half, make sure you kiss her on her upper half to help balance it out.

Michael Webb
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