If you've been following along with my previous articles on creating attraction and comfort there's a good chance that she will seduce you, but most women wouldn't just grab you by the hand and haul you off to bed even if they really want to.

The culture she has grown up in has taught her that it's wrong to instigate sex, and she needs to convince herself that it is you that seduced her, not the other way around.

If she wants to go to bed with you, she will steer you in that direction, but it's going to be in a subtle way so that she can convince herself that it was all innocent on her part, and that sex just sort of happened.

She doesn't want to have to feel that she was the one responsible for what happened. She needs to feel that it was out her control, so that she doesn't have to feel guilty.

So, even though she's giving you every sign that she wants to get it on with you be prepared to play the game and go through the motions of seducing her.

Look for an excuse to get her someplace private like your place or hers.

She may give you a lead like asking about your aquarium. Take her lead and ask her to come over to your place to check it out. Watch for anything that doesn't suggest sex and on the surface is non- sexual and act on it.

Once the two of you are alone she will know why she's there but she still needs to pretend to herself that everything is innocent. It's important to her to feel like everything just happened and not that she went with you with the sole purpose of having sex in mind.

There's no point into getting into a whole bunch of seduction techniques because by this time she's ready and willing. You just need to take your clues from her.

The only important thing is to progress at the pace she's comfortable with. If you go too slow she will lose interest, and if you move too fast you will scare her.

Relax and pay attention to her and try to forget about all the sexual fantasizes you have floating around in you head and you will increase your odds of getting them fulfilled.

Remember your success with women is not about what you physically say or do, but it's about the mental attitude that you develop within yourself. Become the person that women respect and are attracted to, and you will get all the sex you want.

Do you know the most important ingredient to succeeding with women?

P.S. Once you get her into bed you want her to become sexually addicted to you. Check out "The Virtuoso Lover Series"

Gary Caine
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