It is a given fact that men and women have somehow different opinions and interpretations about a lot of things. Those difference in opinions and interpretations are more visible and evident when it comes to love and everything on that area. One aspect that men are most clueless about is when a woman likes him or not. Most men I know share their dilemma and confusion if the woman they like feels the same way they do. While on the other hand, some men end up being disappointed and heart broken because they thought there is a mutual understanding between him and the woman he likes.

Although women have a variety of ways and means of showing their interests in men, there are basic cues if a woman is really into you or not. One of the signs a woman likes you is when she makes herself very much available for you. For instance if you need help no matter how trivial or little it is and even if it's a spur of the moment thing, she is readily available to lend a hand. She also deliberately compromises or reschedules her plans just to help you out. If this happens more that once or twice then most likely she is really into you.

Another signs a woman likes you is through her facial expressions and body language. You have to pay much attention to her if you really want to see the difference. You have to be a keen observer- you have to observe how she moves and looks at other men and how she looks at you. If she mesmerizingly looks at you and slightly tilts her head and playing with her hair when talking to you then that's one sign that she likes you and is clearly flirting with you. Another signs that a woman likes you is if she includes you in her world or wants to be in yours.

She introduces you to her friends, she is trying to please your friends, and she signs up to your gym class. She always tells a good word about you to her friends and other people. As a matter of fact, she cannot stop talking about you. Another signs a woman likes you is when there is a sudden shift of mood from good to bad when she sees you with another girl. She suddenly becomes very unfriendly and doesn't talk to you. Jealousy is one obvious sign that she digs you. Another sign a woman likes you if she confides in you and tell you stuff that would impress you and she finds a way to have some private moment with you.

She loves talking to you and practically loves being with you. She always grabs the opportunity of getting physical with you like leaning on your shoulders, touching your hair and holds your hand. Actually, this is the most obvious way for a woman to show that she likes you, if you don't get this then maybe you should go back to your mom's house and ask for a tutorial about women. Unknown to most men, women also get so stressed out if a man likes them or not and what's worst some women find it hard to do the first move.

That's why the only way she can express her hidden desire for you is through her own little and "non- obvious" cues hoping that somehow you can read between the lines and would do the first move on asking her out.

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