You've had a gut feeling for a while that your wife may be cheating, but you just don't know and it's driving you crazy.

Watch and see if she's showing any of these signs that she is cheating on you.

She is not wearing her wedding ring.

If you frequently see her without her ring and she used to always have it on you have reason to be suspicious.

She may make excuses like she was cleaning and didn't want to tarnish it, or that she had to take it off to protect her finder while she was doing something.

The excuse may be valid, but if she has it off more than she previously did she may be cheating on you.

She starts caring about how she looks.

It could be a sign that your wife is cheating if she suddenly starts taking extra pains to look good when previously she only wore make up on occasion.

You should be curious about who she's trying to impress, you or someone else.

She suddenly stops demanding attention.

Have you noticed that she suddenly stopped telling you about her day, or asking you to help her with the shopping?

Does it seem she really doesn't care what you do, she's just fine on her own?

This could very well mean that she has found someone else to fill her need for attention.

She has become indifferent.

It doesn't seem to matter what you do wouldn't get angry. She doesn't care what you did last night or if you made plans to spend the weekend with your friends. She just smiles and tells you to have a good time.

She moves out of hearing range when she talks on the phone.

If she's doing this it's not likely a conversation with your neighbor about coming over for coffee. She's hiding something.

Sure she could be planning some kind of surprise for you, but if this is happening on a regular basis you have every reason to suspect that something is wrong. She seems to look forward to the times you will be away.

She seems happy that you have to go on a business trip, or that you are going fishing for the weekend?

Maybe she's even so nice to make sure your bags are packed and the boat loaded by the time you get home from work Friday night.

Maybe it's because it makes it easier to cheat on you without getting caught.

She is away from home more often

Does she really need to go shopping three times a week when once a week used to be enough. How come she needs to be out with the girls so often all of a sudden.

If she is finding more and more reasons to get away without you there's a good chance that another man is involved in her reasons.

She suddenly has male friends.

She will tell you that they are just friends and you are being silly to be jealous. I guarantee that even if she isn't cheating the majority of these so called friends will jump into bed with her the first chance they get.

She may not be cheating now, but she's playing with fire.

Be especially if it's always the same guy and she's always coming up with excuse to do something with him.

None of these signs absolutely mean your wife is cheating, but if you are seeing enough of them you have every reason to be suspicious and you need to take action.

Don't make the mistake of just rushing off and accusing her. Before you approach her read. "What To Do If You See Signs Your Wife Is Cheating"

Before you even try to find out if she's cheating you better know how to handle it if she is read "Your Wife Is Cheating And She's Admitted It"

Gary Caine
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