Here is one of the strangest mysteries of the dating world. Why is it that nice girls like dating bad boys? The devilish attraction of Bad Boys has been immortalized in movies and songs ever since 'Spartacus' and 'The Leader of the Pack'. Recently millions of women worldwide have swooned over a criminal George Clooney and co in Oceans 11, 12 and 13. And how about Tony Soprano - although he's no pin-up, the power he projects on screen means there's no shortage of females in his fan club either. You imagine he could just click his fingers and Angelina Jolie would be at his side ... fighting off Megan Fox, and Jessica Alba. In our new book on making true love appear in your life, called 'First Date Magic' we answer this question once and for all. When you think about it, it's obvious. Women like confidence in men and 'bad boys' have confidence to burn. They are self-assured, do what they want, follow their own path and answer to no man. Because they don't conform, they're unpredictable, mysterious and utterly magnetic. In fact, their personality is their strong suit. Bad Boys don't even have to be particularly good looking to get the girl. They can get by on the sheer force of their wicked, rebellious charisma alone.

The pay off for a bad boy's woman is an interesting relationship, full of thrills and the challenge of keeping their bad boy interested. Even if it's hard work from time to time, life is never dull.

So where does that leave the average guy who doesn't want to smash up cars and can't get time off work to set up daring jewel heists in Paris?

Well luckily for you, you don't have to be heading for the slammer to catch a girl's eye, you just need is some of that bad boy confidence. And like Tony Soprano and George Clooney you can just act like you have it. Acting the Bad Boy is a great way to attract great dates, especially in places like bars, clubs and at parties. By the way, if you're out with your mates, why not all try the Bad Boy strategy, and move a crew. It's fun, and above all you'll see that's it's a sure fire way to attract great girls, and not just the bad ones. Acting like a Bad Boy is actually very easy. Here's is the step-by-step guide to looking like a card carry member of the bad boys club. Smile; it makes you look relaxed and in control. Take your time; the world marches to the beat of your drum. Walk tall and with purpose; you know where you're going and what you want - and you want whatever looks best. Breathe deeply and slowly; it looks calm and assured. Talk clearly but never loudly or boastfully; you know you're cool and you've got the goods. Look everyone in the eye; you're the best man in the room and you ain't afraid of nothin'. Keep an air of mystery about you - let the other people fill in some of the blanks about your life. If they ask if you've done time in the big house, just smile to yourself, say nothing and let their minds go into overdrive.

The point is, Bad Boys don't actually ever have to do anything bad. They just have to look as if one day they might.

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