They say behind a very satisfied woman is a very exhausted man. Sexually speaking, yes it's true but if you know what women want in bed it's not as exhausting as you think. What women want in bed is a lot of foreplay. Not just inside the bedroom foreplay but foreplay injected in your daily routine. Like caressing her legs in the car while waiting for the traffic to move or softly touching her behind while standing in line in the grocery store counter. Practicing foreplay outside the bedroom can always make your woman in the mood for love. Foreplay inside the bedroom is just as important.

What women hate is a minute-lover, a lover that does nothing but slams his thing inside her and before the television commercial is over, he is done. What women want in bed is a long, passionate foreplay with a lot of kissing, caressing and rubbing. What women want in bed is for men to discover every crevice of her body. Remember that kissing signifies adoration and admiration and nothing can be better than being adored and admired while lying in bed naked. That's why for every woman, being kissed from head to toe is always heaven. When you kiss a woman's body, don't rush yourself.

Start at her legs, in her toes if you can. Sucking toes and licking every corner of it can be a very erotic sensation. Gradually work your way up. Do it slowly and softly. Use your soft, wet lips while working your way up to her knees. Perform a little tongue work behind the knee because the area behind it is very sensitive. Then continue working your way up until you reach that precious thing between her legs. For majority of women, foreplay is not foreplay without a substantial amount of cunnilingus, and this is what women want in bed.

When you do it, don't shockingly direct yourself to the clitoris. Let your tongue linger around the area first. Start in the inguinal area and progressively work your way inside to the labia minora and the areas around it, after you have saturated the surrounding area, that's the time to laboriously and lovingly lick her clitoris. Don't worry if you're doing it right or not because you will definitely know if you're doing it perfectly. At this time, she might moan and beg for you to start penetrating her but don't do it yet. Let the heat build up. To intensify the passion some more turn her to her back and continue kissing and licking her there, including her cheeks.

Then turn her again and finish what you're doing by working your way to her epigastric area, use the tip of your tongue when you are following the line between her stomach until you reach her breast area. Again use your soft, wet lips when you are in the breast area. Be careful with your teeth if you don't want to ruin the mood. Then just continue to the neck area and behind the ears. While you are doing her neck and ear area, rub your hard thing on her. And gradually do your penetration. With foreplay that passionate, orgasm is not far behind.

If you can hold it longer the better, what women want in bed next to orgasm is a multiple orgasm. Do a variety of comfortable positions. You don't need to perform acrobatic positions to have that explosive climax. Comfort is the key. So after giving her that unforgettable orgasm, give her a long passionate kiss on the mouth and on the forehead. A kiss on the forehead signifies respect. And what women want after sex is to feel loved and respected. Sex is very personal matter and it only feels good and great if you are doing it with the person you truly love.

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