Cheating does not respect gender lines guys, women cheat too. Recently a major sports figure was exposed publicly for cheating. He has a gorgeous wife and children, not to mention a ton of cash. Why did he cheat? The reason for cheating is basically the same for women as it is for men. The person who cheated felt something was lacking in their relationship and sought to fill the emptiness with another person.

"Statistics, like those found on Webmd.com, show that women are cheating just as much as men. Although it may not be comforting to know you are not the only man being cheated on, it does give you valuable information to survive emotionally after finding out that your girl strayed." advises Ashok, an expert on East Indian Dating.

Why did your girlfriend cheat?

The number one reason women cheat is feeling that not enough attention was being paid to them. All the other reasons are just a variation of this simple fact.

Was your girlfriend asking for more attention and you ignored her? If you know you failed to provide the attention she wanted then maybe you have to accept part of the blame. However, if you were being a good boyfriend and she cheated anyway, then maybe she has serious personality flaws. You had better know the difference because once you discover she has cheated you will have to decide if you want to stay in the relationship or not.

End of the road or the road less traveled

Let's say you found out your girlfriend was cheating and when you confronted her with it she expressed no regret or concern for her actions. Cut her loose my friend, she is a loser who will never change.

"On the other hand, what if you find out that she has cheated or she has the guts to tell you herself? She is honest and very sorry for her behavior and wants to try and work it out. Can you do that? Even though cheating has become an equal opportunity arena for women, men who have been cheated on still tend to have a harder time forgiving and forgetting." advises Sheila, an expert on Indian dating do's and don'ts.

If you are the kind of guy who can forgive you may still find that forgetting is much harder. Before you decide if you want to try and work it out, think hard! Can you see yourself trusting her ever again? The truth is that most people who cheat, man or woman, will cheat again. Both you and your girlfriend will need counseling and a whole lot of luck to emerge from this experience with your relationship intact. For more advice on Indian Dating Tips visit www.indiandatingtoday.com

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